Untimely death of Jay Bailey (aged 57) 25 May 2008.

Jay was the partner of Joanne Telfer in the Western Isles and would undoubtedly have been a strong and outspoken activist in her own right, had she not suffered a stroke in 1998 which robbed her of speech.

She loved music and horror films but more importantly, she loved people. She would always go out of her way, to lend a helping hand to anyone who was suffering from misfortune or injustice and often without fear of any negative personal consequences.

Confined to a wheelchair in later days, she laughed and engaged with everyone she met and spread happiness in abundance. She was a people magnet and would surely have helped to build a stronger socialist following on these islands, had she been able to fully participate and express her opinions.

Nevertheless she enjoyed a good quality of life, especially her trips to Stornoway and meeting friends at the Grianan day centre. She was highly popular and the short acute illness which finally overcame her zest for life and her tenacity, came as a shock to her many friends and acquaintances.

   
   

 

Poem by Joanne Telfer

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Jay Jay, oh what a day it was when I met you

 

We talked and clicked, we moved so slick

 

To  happy home for two

 

 

Jay Jay oh how you filled my life with joy  and pain

 

And now if given half a chance

 

I’d live that life again

 

 

Jay Jay, with your appeal, how quickly you transformed

 

A life with few and precious friends

 

You turned into a swarm

 

 

Jay Jay, how sad a day that clots attacked your brain

 

You rallied round and still you found

 

Your joy of life again

 

 

Jay Jay, I need to say you taught me how to love

 

Some love is felt below the waist

 

But ours was from above

 

 

Jay Jay, it’s empathy and empathy so strong

 

That when you hurt then I hurt too

 

Your happiness my song

 

 

Jay Jay, oh how you spread the sunshine in your smile

 

You touched the hearts of everyone

 

You met with unique style